Hey 19

Today's post is dedicated to the gentle giant in our family, Houlder, who turned 19 on May 31st.  He spent his day at the Inn with us visiting Frazer and sharing a very small bed with Porter.  He also graduated from the Collegiate School on Friday, June 6, 2014. 

On May 30th, Will and Houlder drove up to the Inn arriving around 10pm -- just after our return for the Nats game about which I previously posted.  Porter was over the moon showing the off the Inn and chattering endlessly.  After being away from Houlder a couple of weeks, it was easy to notice the man he has become.  From the attachment to his iphone to receive all birthday wishes to his slightly less than enthusiastic responses to Porter, Will and I chatted about how he continues to improve as his "normal" young adult behavior begins to show through.  It is pleasant to see.

Birthday breakfast was made in the community kitchen by Porter with love.  We will leave it there as Houlder gifted Porter by eating a few.

We visited Frazer for a bit and hit the movies to see the new X-man movie.  Eh, but we toured downtown Bethesda, visited famous Georgetown Cupcakes to get some treats, and hit the bookstore for a few "gifts."  More visits with Frazer, dinner, games, the day ended with people hitting the hay by 10pm.  Not typical for 19, but as far I figure, we rarely do typical.

The next morning William and Houlder left early to collect Dell from St. James.  The three men began their man-summer until Porter and I came home the 5th for graduation festivities.

A better weekend could not have been scripted.  Lovely mild, sunny weather allowed for a comfortable and gorgeous day.  Will's parents joined us.  It was just great to see these kids we have watched for 13 years.  And, for us, it was such a special moment.  Two years ago, when we returned from Mayo, we could not allow ourselves to think Houlder would be able to make up lost work and graduate with his class.  Hurrah for him!  No tears at this time as we are tickled and delighted.  It is such a great victory for Houlder's tenacity.

Houlder will spend the remainder of his summer coaching swimming for the Country Club of Virginia -- a Southampton rival.  He has a bench to finish from his senior project which will be in our kitchen when the second one is completed.  He has friends to spend time at the beach.  And, he has Kenyon waiting.  He was delighted to tell me he had received his kenyon.edu email address and update his FB photo to a picture of Middle Path.  It feels like his life is commencing.

William and I are grateful for his persistence and kindness.  It feels like his life is front of him.  Who would have thought two years ago?  Hey 19

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